Current Status on Mother Angelica

From time to time the Sisters at Our Lady of the Angels Monastery post an update on Mother Angelica on the EWTN website, http://www.ewtn.com/mother_update.asp.

The latest information is:

Thank you for your continued prayers for Mother Angelica. Her health remains stable, and she is as plucky as ever. It’s a real joy to visit Mother in her room, because inspiration is the gift she liberally hands out! Not with her down-to-earth wisdom communicated by words (which we all loved and miss), but through another medium – example. The welcome smile of our Mother beckons each of us close to her bedside where she instantly has you entangled in her strong grasp. Just try to get free! Every great teacher closes their lessons with a thought to ponder, a word of wisdom for the day. Mother’s unspoken word of ‘acceptance’ is continually given to all who visit her.
 

                                 
From The Sisters at Our Lady of the Angels Monastery on January 26th, 2010

The Monastery’s website also has a page dedicated to Mother.

So, in case you didn’t already have these links now you can bookmark them and keep up to date on Mother.

Today’s RCIA Session

In today’s session I had the students. The girl is 15. She usually doesn’t have much to say. I have never been able to tell if she was “getting it.” Well today that all changed (and it was also my final session with her, since the rest leading up to the vigil will be handled by the RCIA director).

I was going over the lesson plan that you can find in my previous post. The essence of the lesson was our identity as Christian prophets and the missionary spirit. I gave her many opportunities to discuss today’s readings, and I mostly received the usual “I don’t know” or “give me an example of what you are looking for.”

Then we got to the second reading. In mass it was read by a student because we are celebrating Catholic Schools Week. In our session I let the girl read the passage from First Corinthians. I explained that there is only one word for “love” in the English language, while there are at least three words for love in the Greek language. (This site explains the four words for love in Greek: eros, storge, philia, agape.) So we usually get confused by the meaning of love which is used so often in the New Testament.

The love of the Bible is agape, I told her. We are to want the best for those around us. And something clicked in her and she told me that the second reading really struck a cord with her today. She has a lot of confusion and frustrations and dealings with friends right now, and St. Paul’s writings gave her some insight on how to deal with some aspects of her life right now. She just talked and talked. It was good to see her work through her life struggles and turn to Christ and the Bible for guidance, and listening to God speak to her through His Word.

RCIA – 4th Sunday in Ordinary Time -Year C – Prophets

Sunday, January 31, 2010

The 4th Sunday in Ordinary Time – Year C

Take a moment and picture God forming you in your mother’s womb for a special purpose.

Opening Prayer: God, you formed us in our mothers’ wombs. You know us well, and you appoint us to speak your word to others in our world. Let your word deepen in us. Speak your word to us now in our time together. We ask this through Christ our Savior. Amen.

Today’s readings present Jeremiah’s call to be a prophet and Jesus beginning to live his ministry as a prophet. Prophets hear God’s word spoken within them. The passage from the opening of the Book of Jeremiah is a classic example of how the Jewish scriptures describe God’s call of an individual to be a prophet. The divine initiative is highlighted (“Before I formed you… before you were born,” [v5]); and the nature of the prophet’s ministry is anticipated, both its universal aspect (“… a prophet to the nations,” [v5]), as well as the resistance he will encounter (“…they will fight against you,” [v19]). The prophet is reassured that God will protect him from his enemies and enable him to carry out his mandate. Today’s reading does not include the prophet’s response, and this tends to focus our attention even more on God’s role in the encounter. Two important themes from the Jeremiah reading will reappear in today’s Gospel: the mission of the prophet to the nations, and the inevitability of resistance to his ministry.

What word did God speak in your heart in today’s liturgy?

The first reading: Jeremiah 1: 4-5, 17-19

God said that He formed Jeremiah in the womb,

God knew Jeremiah even before this,

and that before Jeremiah was born God dedicated him.

What is your own sense of how God has formed you, known you, dedicated you?

Place your hands on your heart as a gesture to acknowledge that you have been formed by God and are dedicated by God. … As you sit with your hands on your heart, what do you want to pray to God for?

Psalm 71

The psalm expresses the sentiments of one who encounters opposition but trusts deeply in God’s protection. One can envision both Jeremiah and Jesus praying this psalm at different points in their respective careers.

The second reading: 1 Corinthians 12:31-13:13

This week’s second reading continues where we left off last week, which also continued from the previous week. Two weeks ago Paul told us about the gifts of the Holy Spirit and how they are all of equal value in God’s eyes. Last week Paul said that the gifts that God gave us and each individual are all part of the Body of Christ. And today Paul gives a larger context to his preaching. He is telling the Corinthian community to cease its jealousies and contentions and to instead express mutual acceptance and love for each other. As great as our gifts are, they are only partial compared to that of Christ. “When the perfect comes, the partial will pass away,” and the perfect has come in Jesus Christ. Listening to the words of Christ enable us to know fully, just as we are fully known by God from the first moment he formed us in the womb.

The Christian Call to Prophecy

The Gospel: Luke 4:21-30

Today’s Gospel is a continuation of last Sunday’s, when we heard that Jesus claimed in his hometown of Nazareth that the prophetic words of Isaiah are fulfilled in him. Today’s passage goes on to speak of the response of indignation of the townspeople to the point of literally throwing him out of town. At first the people who hear Jesus preach are amazed at his gracious words. Yet they insist on measuring him according to their own sub-par standards.

When have you experienced speaking the truth and feeling the rejection or scorn of others? What was this like for you?

God has given to every member of the Church the offices of priest, prophet and king. How often do we recognize the gift of prophecy in our fellow Christians? The Lord has placed them here to speak to us and contribute to our own sanctification. Let us not reject the gift of God, like those in today’s Gospel, because we see the one bringing it as “ordinary.” Rather let us recognize God’s voice in our fellowmen. Let us listen for the extraordinary message that we just may hear.

Luke continues to assert that Jesus has come for all people, including the Gentiles as represented by the stories of Elijah and Elisha. Here Luke is anticipating a fundamental theme of his Gospel; in reaching out to those most desperately in need of salvation (the Gentiles), Jesus would encounter resistance from his fellow Jews, but he would persevere and would continue steadfastly “on his way” (v30). Luke intends for this example of Jesus to be followed by His disciples as well. Preaching to the outcast and steadfast perseverance in the face of opposition are fundamental to the Christian’s baptismal call as a prophet.

What words of Jesus do you find difficult to hear?

What people or groups of people do you find hard to include?

This Gospel cuts into Christian experience in two ways. First, disciples of Christ at times are called to speak the truth in various situations. Second, God continues to challenge Christians beyond our own limited view of situations and people.

Which of these two ways do you sense God is speaking to you today in this gospel? Are you being called to speak the truth in some way? Or are you being called to see someone of some situation with new eyes?

Catholic Doctrine – Our Identity as Prophets

Prophets hear God’s word within themselves, and know they are called to speak this word to others. Prophets did not tell the future. However, God’s word at times stated that unless people changed their lives, there would be a negative result. Many times throughout the Old Testament the Jewish people would become lazy about their faith and God would send a prophet. The prophet saw life from the perspective of God and preached accordingly. In that sense the prophet could be said to “speak for” or on the behalf of God. The prominent prophets in the Christian Bible are Jeremiah, Isaiah, Ezekiel, and Daniel. These prophets frequently “enacted” their prophecies and warned the people of the consequences of their activities. They also formed the people in the hope of God’s salvation and the promise of redemption (CCC 64). Because prophets were usually speaking a difficult truth, they often were not received well. Jeremiah was even thrown in a pit.

Although it does not describe his entire identity, Jesus functions as a prophet. In Old Testament times, those who were called and set apart for a special lifelong task by God (priests, kings and some prophets) were anointed. The term Christ, from the Greek translation of the Hebrew word “messiah,” which means “anointed,” indicates the prophetic mission of Jesus in that some prophets were anointed  for their task. Because Jesus fulfills God’s message of love and concern for the world he was anointed for his mission as priest, prophet and king (CCC 436).

Christians are called to speak a prophetic voice. By baptism believers share in the mission of Jesus. The newly baptized are anointed and the Church prays:

God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ has freed you from sin and given you a new birth by water and the Holy Spirit, and welcomed you into his holy people. He now anoints you with the chrism of salvation. As Christ was anointed Priest, Prophet and King, so may you live always as a member of his body, sharing everlasting life. (Rite of Infant Baptism, n 98)

Catholics believe that our baptismal identity in Christ as prophets empowers us to spread the good news, as Jesus commanded (Matthew 28:18-20). Those who are baptized are not prophets in the sense of the Old Testament prophets. That age ended with John the Baptist. A new age is inaugurated in Christ who commands us to be prophets of the gospel, going to the ends of the earth with this good news.

Catholic Culture – The Missionary Spirit

God our Father wishes all people and all creation to be saved and sanctified. Therefore as Christians we are not the sole objects of God’s care. But as Christians we do hold a privileged place in the Father’s heart, as members of Christ’s Body, the Church. With this place within the Body of Christ comes the mission of being co-redeemers with Christ. It is through Christ that all are saved. As members of Christ’s Body we participate in this redemption. It is through the mystical Body of Christ that those of all nations, and all people who seek God with sincere hearts, may be saved.

St. Therese of Lisieux (the “Little Flower”) and St. Francis Xavier are the patron saints of the missions. Therese, a Carmelite nun, was given the name Therese of the Child Jesus and the Holy Face (1873-97). She died of tuberculosis but not before she had completed an autobiography detailing not so much the events of her life as the action of God’s loving grace in those events – in spite of the great suffering she experienced. Francis, a Jesuit priest (1506-52), undertook missionary work in India and Japan. He died while attempting to enter China to begin more missionary efforts there.

Who are some people you know who have spoken God’s word to the world? Think of people in your family, in your city or neighborhood, or people you know about nationally or internationally. What is the word this person spoke? What is the effect of this word? What happened to the person speaking it?

Some additional examples of people who have spoken the truth:

  • Cesar Chavez, who spoke for the rights of the United Farm Workers
  • Martin Luther King, Jr., though not of the Catholic community, speaking for racial equality
  • Dorothy Day (1897-1980) worked with and for the poor. Day was a convert to Catholicism. She founded the Catholic Worker movement in the US, embraced voluntary poverty, opened a house of hospitality and a farm commune.
  • Jean Vanier, involved with L’Arche community
  • Oscar Romero (1917-1980), Bishop of El Salvador. He preached against the violence occasioned by attempts at land reform and publicly condemned human rights abuses. He was assassinated while celebrating Mass on March 24, 1980.

As Christians, followers of the Prince of peace, we are called to be peacemakers in the world. But how then do we find ourselves causing strife rather than peace by our careless words and actions? God does not ask us to be defenseless or pushovers, but he does call us not to cause harm to others. Just as by helping the unfortunate we can show our love for Christ, by our negligence or ill-will toward our brothers and sisters, we show disregard for our Savior. Let us live joyfully in love and peace.

Putting Faith into Practice

What is the word of God you have heard within and know needs to be spoken? What is the word you are willing to speak this week?

St. Thomas Aquinas

Feastday: January 28


St. Thomas Aquinas

St. Thomas Aquinas, priest and doctor of the Church, patron of all universities and of students. His feast day is January 28th. He was born toward the end of the year 1226. He was the son of Landulph, Count of Aquino, who, when St. Thomas was five years old, placed him under the care of the Benedictines of Monte Casino. His teachers were surprised at the progress he made, for he surpassed all his fellow pupils in learning as well as in the practice of virtue.

When he became of age to choose his state of life, St. Thomas renounced the things of this world and resolved to enter the Order of St. Dominic in spite of the opposition of his family. In 1243, at the age of seventeen, he joined the Dominicans of Naples. Some members of his family resorted to all manner of means over a two year period to break his constancy. They even went so far as to send an impure woman to tempt him. But all their efforts were in vain and St. Thomas persevered in his vocation. As a reward for his fidelity, God conferred upon him the gift of perfect chastity, which has merited for him the title of the “Angelic Doctor”.

After making his profession at Naples, he studied at Cologne under the celebrated St. Albert the Great. Here he was nicknamed the “dumb ox” because of his silent ways and huge size, but he was really a brilliant student. At the age of twenty-two, he was appointed to teach in the same city. At the same time, he also began to publish his first works. After four years he was sent to Paris. The saint was then a priest. At the age of thirty-one, he received his doctorate.

At Paris he was honored with the friendship of the King, St. Louis, with whom he frequently dined. In 1261, Urban IV called him to Rome where he was appointed to teach, but he positively declined to accept any ecclesiastical dignity. St. Thomas not only wrote (his writings filled twenty hefty tomes characterized by brilliance of thought and lucidity of language), but he preached often and with greatest fruit. Clement IV offered him the archbishopric of Naples which he also refused. He left the great monument of his learning, the “Summa Theologica”, unfinished, for on his way to the second Council of Lyons, ordered there by Gregory X, he fell sick and died at the Cistercian monastery of Fossa Nuova in 1274.

St. Thomas was one of the greatest and most influential theologians of all time. He was canonized in 1323 and declared Doctor of the Church by Pope Pius V.

http://www.catholic.org/saints/saint.php?saint_id=2530

Closing Prayer: O God, you have crated, formed, and appointed us to speak your word of truth and justice for others. Open our lips. Put your word in our mouths. Give us the strength we need to live as Jesus calls us. Help us stand and walk straight. Empower us with your love and truth. We ask this in the name of Jesus. Amen.

The Catholic Church and the NFL

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Catholic Church Fined by NFL

New Orleans, LA — Earlier today the Archdiocese of of New Orleans received a letter from the National Football League (NFL) about the unauthorized use of NFL trademarked property.   NFL spokes person John Tallibou says that the “Catholic Church in New Orleans has been using unauthorized songs, images, and colors in their services for years that mention “saints” or the Saints color and symbols that are trademarked to the NFL by means of the New Orleans Saints franchise team.”
The NFL is demanding that all colors, marks, symbols, signs, and songs that have any reference to “saints” or the colors associated with the team must be removed from the property of all Catholic Churches in New Orelans.  So far, the list includes: the color gold, the fleur de lis,  the color black, the color white, as well as any songs and prayers that use the words “Saints”, “New” or “Orleans”.
Archdiocesan spokes person Sarah Jane Caliano has said, “The Archbishop and diocese is stunned by this demand.  Does not the NFL know that these symbols are sacred and older than any football franchise?  Does the NFL not know that the team was name thus because of the Catholic culture of the city?  Gold, gold never tarnishes and keeps its luster and beauty for centuries and there for represents God’s divinity and never changing nature.  Black represents those who mourn now here on earth for their sins and the sins of the world as well as the mysterious unknown parts of God.  The fleur de lis is not just a symbol of the New Orleans Saints but also an ancient image of the Lilly.  The same image and flower that symbolizes the Trinity: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.  The fleur de lis also represent the purity of Mary and St. Joseph.  The color white, the color asociated with so many occasians in the Catholic Church: baptism, confirmation, matrimony.  White is the color of purity and rebirth.”
Locals are equally stunned by the request of the NFL.  Johny Ray of J-Ray tattoos said, “I don’t get it.  I’ve been tattooing saints stuff on people all my life.  On their hands, arms, backs, legs.  Does this mean the NFL now owns those people’s body parts.”
Whatever the outcome it is clear that New Orleans is not happy with the NFL’s request.  The Catholic Church of New Orleans is currently in the process of contacting some of its best lawyers and thinkers to help combat the the situation.
And then we hear…..

Pope Benedict suing NFL
Claims only he can use roman numerals

09/06/09 – According to court documents, Pope Benedict XVI is suing the National Football League (NFL) for its use of roman numerals, claiming only he should be allowed to use them.  NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell stated that the NFL only uses them for one game, once a year – the Super Bowl.  In 2010, Super Bowl XLIV will be held in Dolphin Stadium in Miami, Florida.

“I’m Roman Catholic and only we can use roman numerals,” said the angry Pope.  “There is nothing roman about football,” added the sixteenth pope of the Roman Catholic Church.  The church wasn’t shy about expressing its views of the NFL.  “How many football players do you think actually know which Super Bowl they’re playing in?” said Pope assistant Giorgio Agosto.  “You think an offensive lineman knows what ‘XLIV’ stands for?” added Agosto.

Goodell claims the NFL is more popular than the Pope because the Super Bowl draws more television ratings than any of the Pope’s TV appearances.  The Pope claims the NFL mocks the church by playing most of its super bowls in New Orleans, LA, home of the New Orleans Saints.  “There are no saints in football,” added the Pope.  Goodell also claims the Pope is just taking out his anger at the NFL for being cut by his high school football team, the Vatican City High School Bulldogs, during his junior year.

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Scheidler: Jenkins Remains Utterly Immovable on ND 88

Scheidler: Jenkins Remains Utterly Immovable on ND 88

By James Tillman

WASHINGTON, DC, January 25, 2009 (LifeSiteNews.com) — Joseph Scheidler of the Pro-Life Action League says that prior to last week he had sent letters “begging and pleading” for a chance to meet with Father John Jenkins, President of Notre Dame, but he was never given the chance to do so.

So when he saw Father Jenkins at the March for Life in Washington last Thursday, he thought that it was “too good a chance to miss.”

Jenkins had agreed to attend this year’s March for Life as part of the pro-life measures he began on campus in response to the outcry caused by his invitation of President Obama to speak at last year’s Notre Dame commencement.

However, Jenkins’ announcement that he intended to participate in the March for Life did little to assuage the criticisms of pro-life activists, in large part because of his continued refusal to ask that the charges against the 88 peaceful pro-life protestors who were arrested on the campus last year be dropped.

The 88 pro-lifers face up to a year in prison and a $5,000 fine if they are found guilty of the charge of trespassing. Currently an online petition effort, demanding that Fr. Jenkins request that the charges be dropped, has been signed by over 5,000 concerned individuals.

However, according to Scheidler, Fr. Jenkins remains obstinate in his refusal to do so, saying that talking to Jenkins about the issue was like talking to a “stone.”

Scheidler told LifeSiteNews (LSN) that he told Fr. Jenkins “that many, many of my friends wanted me to talk to him about removing the charges of the Notre Dame 88.  So [Father Jenkins] said, ‘Well, now you’ve told me what they want,’ and that was it.”

“So I thought, ‘Well, that wasn’t very good,’” said Scheidler. “So I went back and I said, ‘You know, I not only was a student at Notre Dame but I taught at Notre Dame, and I’m very fond of Notre Dame.  And I am really concerned that these 88 people were arrested for simply going on the campus doing something that they should do,’ or something to that effect.  And he said ‘Alright, now you’ve said that.’  And he was very off-putting.”

Joseph Scheidler is among those listed as “Notable Alumni” on the Notre Dame website.  Other Notre Dame alumni are of a similar opinion as Scheidler; according to ReplaceJenkins.com donations totaling over $16 million from over 1,500 alumni have been withheld from Notre Dame because of Father Jenkins’ actions.

According to Scheidler, the whole impression Father Jenkins gave was that, “You can talk to me all day about this, and my mind’s made up.”

“I think he’s going to stand his ground on this,” he continued. “Although, you know, anything could happen.   But I wouldn’t want to be one of the 88, because they are facing, you know, a possible 6 months in jail and possible 5,000 dollar fine.”

“I don’t give much hope for any change. … You might as well have been talking to a stone.”

Such inflexibility, according to Scheidler, makes Jenkins’ arrival at the March for Life little more than an empty gesture.  “Going to the March was a very small payment for having Obama there,” Scheidler said, “and nothing for saving these 88 people … [from] paying for what was not a crime.”

“He has said before that it’s out of his hands,” he continued.  “Well, it’s not.  He could say ‘Drop the charges,’ and they’d be dropped.”

The problem posed by Father Jenkins’ obstinacy makes Scheidler fear for Notre Dame’s reputation, especially after Jenkins’ recent reelection to another five years in his position.  “He’s got five more years handed to him,” said Scheidler, “and I have great fears that Notre Dame is going to lose its reputation. It’s losing it fast.  And it would be almost impossible to get it back.”

To sign the petition to Free the ND 88, click here.

A Promising Baseball Player Answers God’s Call

Well, here’s a story you don’t see every day.

Grant Desme, a 23-year-old minor league outfielder in Oakland’s system, is retiring from baseball to follow a calling into the Catholic priesthood.

The story was first reported by Fox Sports’ Jon Paul Morosi — perhaps appropriately with that first name of his — and this isn’t a case of a struggling player going through an early-life crisis. Desme was ranked the A’s eighth-best prospect by Baseball America after hitting .288 with 31 home runs and 89 RBIs in A ball in 2009 and he was just named MVP of the Arizona Fall League.

Desme might have even been a late-season callup to the big league club in 2010. Our Y! Sports 2010 fantasy guide has him ranked the 40th-best minor-league prospect for near-term fantasy purpose. However, ESPN’s Rob Neyer disagrees, saying that he didn’t see Desme as a future star by the Bay.

Susan Slusser has more on Desme’s decision to leave playing against the Padres and Cardinals so he can start praying with other padres and cardinals at a Catholic seminary in Orange County. He said the news came as bit of a shock to Billy Beane, but that the Oakland GM and entire A’s system have been supportive of his decision.

Said Desme on a Friday afternoon conference call:

“I’m doing well in baseball. But I had to get down to the bottom of things, to what was good in my life, what I wanted to do with my life. Baseball is a good thing, but that felt selfish of me when I felt that God was calling me more. It took awhile to trust that and open up to it and aim full steam toward him … I love the game, but I’m going to aspire to higher things.”

Desme spoke with Baseball America last year about baseball being only “a game” and we wish him success on his spiritual path. In a selfish age when churches struggle to recruit young male Americans, his sacrifice of possible riches is a very admirable thing.

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Pope asks priests to get online, spread the Gospel

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Pope asks priests to get online, spread the Gospel


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By John Thavis
Catholic News Service

VATICAN CITY (CNS) — In a message embracing the evangelizing potential of digital media, Pope Benedict XVI asked priests around the world to use Web sites, videos and blogs as tools of pastoral ministry.

“The world of digital communication, with its almost limitless expressive capacity, makes us appreciate all the more St. Paul’s exclamation: ‘Woe to me if I do not preach the Gospel,’” the pope said in his message for the 2010 celebration of World Communications Day.

“Priests stand at the threshold of a new era: as new technologies create deeper forms of relationship across greater distances, they are called to respond pastorally by putting the media ever more effectively at the service of the Word,” he said.

The pope’s message, released at the Vatican Jan. 23, was tailored to the current Year for Priests, focusing on the theme: “The priest and pastoral ministry in a digital world: New media at the service of the Word.” World Communications Day will be celebrated May 16 in most dioceses.

The pope said that while priests should not abandon traditional methods of pastoral interaction, they cannot afford to pass up the opportunities offered by digital media. He said “the recent, explosive growth and greater social impact of these media make them all the more important for a fruitful priestly ministry.”

For priests to exercise their proper role as leaders in communities, they must learn to express themselves in the “digital marketplace,” the pope said.

“Priests are thus challenged to proclaim the Gospel by employing the latest generation of audiovisual resources (images, videos, animated features, blogs, Web sites) which, alongside traditional means, can open up broad new vistas for dialogue, evangelization and catechesis,” he said.

The pope emphasized, however, that the church’s role is not simply to fill up space on the Web. Its overriding aim is to express in the digital world “God’s loving care for people in Christ,” not just as an artifact from the past or a theory, but as something concrete and engaging, he said.

Because digital media cross over religious and cultural boundaries, the church’s presence requires sensitivity “to those who do not believe, the disheartened and those who have a deep, unarticulated desire for enduring truth and the absolute,” he said.

In order for priests to effectively use new media, formation programs should teach them how to use these technologies in a competent and appropriate way, the papal message said. This formation in digital media should be guided by sound theology and priestly spirituality, it said.

“Priests present in the world of digital communications should be less notable for their media savvy than for their priestly heart, their closeness to Christ,” the pope said. In this way, they help give a “soul” to the Web, he added.

Archbishop Claudio Celli, president of the Pontifical Council for Social Communications, said the message once again illustrated the pope’s mainly favorable view of new media.

“The pope is aware of the limits of new technologies, but he wants to make the point that these new means of communication play a positive role, both in the wider society and in the church,” the archbishop said in a briefing with reporters.

Archbishop Celli said the message doesn’t mean that the Vatican now expects every priest to open a blog or a Web site, but rather to make appropriate use as possibilities present themselves. He said that task will probably be easier for younger priests, who are already more involved in new media.

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The Feast of St. Agnes and the Blessing of the Lambs

Fr. Z has two posts on the Feast of St. Agnes today. The first details the history of St. Agnes of Rome. She was a little girl martyred in the 3rd or 4th century. Her martyrdom supposedly took place in the Piazza Navona in the heart of Rome.

A view of Piazza Navona

Fr. Z’s second post for today’s feast is about the Holy Father blessing the lambs for the pallia.  You can also see a video of the Pope performing the blessing.

Divorce is Down: Are Couples More Happy?

I found this article at momlogic.com. It starts off with:

That caught my eye, especially “even though the population is growing.” (Population growth should be a good thing!) The gist is that in these rough economic times, it’s just too costly to divorce. Who would’ve thought that we would have to go through a financial crisis to find out that family life isn’t all that bad, even if we do have bumps in the road along the way.

The article states:

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And so we have a secular view on keeping a marriage together. Marriage is good for maintaining wealth. The children bring satisfaction to the union. Marrieds just need to find ways to get past the boredom of a long-term commitment. And if you work through your marital problems you will most likely be more happy than if you would have gotten a divorce.
All this then brings me to G. K. Chesterton, The Apostle of Common Sense. I have been reading through Dale Ahlquist’s book, which contains a summary of a number of Chesterton’s works. Chesterton states over and over again that the family is the core unit of society. When the family is destroyed then it is just a matter of time before the rest of society fails as well. We are in the midst of that failure. But maybe, just maybe, this financial crisis that we are going through will awaken the populace to see that what they have at home is their most valuable possession, their family.
Here are some excerpts of what Ahlquist has to say about Chesterton’s collection of essays called The Well and the Shallows:
The Well and the Shallows was published in 1935, and it could easily be called More of the Thing, because once again, Chesterton connects “The Thing” to everything else. “The Thing” is the Catholic faith, which is not just a religious doctrine but a complete and integrated world view. Chesterton argues that all other religious, political, and social ideas are not only enemies of the Church but enemies of mankind.
Modern man thinks freedom means breaking the rules, but, as Chesterton points out, freedom means exercising free will to obey the rules. Without freedom there is no such thing as obedience and responsibility. We are not forced to obey. We choose. That is what gives us our dignity. We make a vow by choice. Freedom means keeping that vow, no matter how difficult, not breaking it, no matter now compelling.
This freedom to keep a vow no matter how difficult sounds a lot like working through marital problems. There’s a certain dignity in freely striving to make something work that you freely decided to commit to in the first place.
Tying this to the recession, we find that Chesterton was no fan of capitalism. Ahlquist goes on to say:
But, surprisingly, Chesterton says, what has done more to destroy the family in the modern world, even before the State got in on the act, is a rampant and unbridled capitalism.
Chesterton says there is no way out of the modern tangle, except for independent people and independent families to live simpler lives. That means learning how to be content with less,  so that we can be more content. To be content is to be free.
And so you see we need to be content with ourselves, with our families.  This recession is showing us that we can’t have everything all of the time. The ads will try to convince you otherwise, but stuff is just stuff and family is family. Play ball with your kids, read a book with your spouse (read Chesterton!), plant a family garden and care for it together. You don’t need the latest gadget to make you and your family happy and content; you just need to spend time with one another.

RCIA – The Wedding at Cana – The Sacrament of Marriage

Catholic Teaching on Marriage

What is marriage to you?

Marriage is a covenant of love between the spouses, implying a total self-giving of one spouse to the other.

The sacrament of marriage continually offers God’s grace, which is the power of God’s love, Jesus’ presence and the energy of the Spirit, to sustain the covenant of love between spouses.

The love between husband and wife involves a totality of body, instinct, power, emotion and aspiration of the spirit and will aiming at a deeply personal unity which goes beyond union in one flesh to encompass the formation of one heart and soul.

This union of heart and soul is possible because of the union of love between God and God’s people, gained for all in the life, death and resurrection of Jesus and sustained by the presence and power of the Holy Spirit.

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Marriage is not simply a human institution, but is part of God’s plan in creation (CCC 1603). Marriage was spoken of highly in the Old Testament, and with the coming of Christ, the marital covenant between baptized persons was raised to the dignity of a sacrament (CCC 1601). Marriage becomes an effective sign of Christ’s presence (CCC 1613).

In the eyes of the Church, what is this sacrament? Marriage between two baptized persons (a man and a woman who freely enter into a permanent, loving and faithful covenant with one another) shares in the fruitful love and unity that exists between Christ and the Church. Husband and wife assist each other in attaining holiness of life and in the rearing of children. Therefore, they have their own special place, their own gift and vocation, among the people of God (Rite of Marriage, Congregation of Rites, 19 March 1969, n.1).

This sacrament is not a contract, but a covenant. Freely entered into, the marriage covenant cannot be dissolved until death because it is a total self-giving, one person to the other. Jesus himself taught this truth as determined by God (Matt. 19:6). The covenant between husband and wife in marriage is integrated into God’s loving, covenant relationship with his people (CCC 1640). Jesus gives those who are married the ability to live up to the demands and expectations of marriage precisely through the gift of the sacrament (CCC 1650).

John Paul II, taking up themes taught by the Second Vatican Council, elaborates on the characteristics of conjugal love. In his apostolic exhortation, Familiaris Consortio (22 November 1981), he further clarifies the teaching of the Council, describing the love between husband and wife as involving a totality of body, instinct, power, emotion and aspiration of the spirit and will, aiming at a deeply personal unity which goes beyond union in one flesh to encompass the formation of one heart and soul (FC, 19). This is, in part, offered as a rationale which demands the indissolubility of marriage (CCC 1643). The Council itself had stipulated that along with the mutual self-giving of the two partners, the other purpose of marriage is procreation and the rearing of children (Gaudium et Spes, 7 December 1965, n 48).

However, since a valid marriage depends upon the free will of a husband and wife to truly enter into the sacrament, if the necessary freedom is lacking the Church can declare the union null. This declaration of nullity is commonly called an annulment (CCC 1629). This declaration is not effected through a civil divorce, but through a Church process. While some may consider the annulment process lengthy and intrusive, its purpose is to protect the marriage as a symbol of God’s unbreakable and loving fidelity to us (CCC 1647).

A married man and woman give themselves to each other just as Christ has given himself to us, and in turn we give ourselves to Him. How do we do that? By giving ourselves to our fellow man by sharing our God given gifts and talents with each other, and in all that we do, give glory to God.

What is marriage according to the Catholic Church?

What examples of total self-giving can you name among married couples with whom you are acquainted?

If you are married, when have you experienced God’s grace help you and your spouse through a difficult time?

How would you describe this ‘union of heart and soul’ spoken of by Pope John Paul II?

What is your understanding of the difference between a contract and a covenant?

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Pope John Paul II also wrote a document known as “The Theology of the Body – Human Love in the Divine Plan.” From the back cover – “Going back to the biblical ‘beginning’ as recorded in Genesis, the Pope discusses the bodily dimensions of human personhood, sexuality, and marriage in the light of biblical revelation. Starting from three primordial human experiences – original solitude, original unity and original nakedness – he outlines a theology of the nuptial meaning of the body. A key theme is the communion of persons, which is a reflection of the Trinity. Within this framework, the Pope also considers the meaning of chastity for the sake of the kingdom.” While this book may focus on the marital aspects of the body it is also useful to persons in any state in life. This book may be a little deep for most of us and author and speaker, Christopher West, has many books, articles and podcasts on the topic for a better understanding. www.christopherwest.com

Marriage is the only sacrament of the seven which is ordinarily administered by lay people. In the Latin rite, the sacrament is understood to be mutually conferred by the spouses upon one another. The priest or deacon witnesses the wedding, but the couple actually does the deed.

Pre-Cana classes are required for Catholic marriages. Notice the connection to Jesus’ first miracle at the wedding in Cana. There is a lot of information on marriage preparation at the website for the Archdiocese of Detroit, www.aodonline.org. Start at Offices & Ministries, then Marriage Support/Ministry. A local Detroit woman has also started a forum to assist brides with pre-Cana and other wedding planning activities, from a Catholic perspective.  www.brides.ourladyforums.com

Prayers of Blessing for ordinary and extraordinary occasions that occur in a marital relationship can be found on-line here:

http://www.trosch.org/lit/ble/blessings0.html

Sources:

Magnificat Vol. 11, No. 12 / January 2010

Workbook for Lectors, Gospel Readers, and Proclaimers of the Word, 2010

The Word into Life, Year C